The fact that you “need” to know this information sounds a little startling, but ok… I’ll kind of answer you.
My thoughts on the subject have been the same for 3 1/2 years now: I’m not looking for anything in my life other than to have a happy heart and a happy mind; that is where I’ll find my fulfillment. But to make one thing clear; when it comes to money, status, etc: I grew up with a mother who when I said “One day I want to marry a doctor”, she said, “No Christina, you can BE the doctor” (well then I went to art school, but you get my point).
I was with someone when I was young who got out of bed every day and hated what they did for a living, but chose the career because of financial reasons. After it ended, I promised myself I would never attach myself to someone who didn’t spend every day moving forward in the direction of their passion or trying to find what makes them happy. I wouldn’t care if the person I was with picked up trash for a living, if they did it because they were genuinely happy, that’s the most attractive quality a person could have.
I may not have much in my bank account, but I know I go to work everyday happy with what I do and work very hard for the old car, small apartment, etc. I go to sleep at night knowing I’m where I belong and that’s better than the personal prison that would be otherwise. I’d just want the same in a partner. So dude or girl; if anyone who treats you like you don’t have enough money, power, etc is just simply not worth your time! (hard to say in this city of mass wannabes and gold-diggers, I know)(hyper sentimental, emotional response to an anonymous box question submission… get me now while I’m happily reflecting on my life, haha)

The fact that you “need” to know this information sounds a little startling, but ok… I’ll kind of answer you.

My thoughts on the subject have been the same for 3 1/2 years now: I’m not looking for anything in my life other than to have a happy heart and a happy mind; that is where I’ll find my fulfillment. But to make one thing clear; when it comes to money, status, etc: I grew up with a mother who when I said “One day I want to marry a doctor”, she said, “No Christina, you can BE the doctor” (well then I went to art school, but you get my point).

I was with someone when I was young who got out of bed every day and hated what they did for a living, but chose the career because of financial reasons. After it ended, I promised myself I would never attach myself to someone who didn’t spend every day moving forward in the direction of their passion or trying to find what makes them happy. I wouldn’t care if the person I was with picked up trash for a living, if they did it because they were genuinely happy, that’s the most attractive quality a person could have.

I may not have much in my bank account, but I know I go to work everyday happy with what I do and work very hard for the old car, small apartment, etc. I go to sleep at night knowing I’m where I belong and that’s better than the personal prison that would be otherwise. I’d just want the same in a partner. So dude or girl; if anyone who treats you like you don’t have enough money, power, etc is just simply not worth your time! (hard to say in this city of mass wannabes and gold-diggers, I know)

(hyper sentimental, emotional response to an anonymous box question submission… get me now while I’m happily reflecting on my life, haha)

  1. ohyeahpaulchin reblogged this from christinahaberkern and added:
    actually sorta LOVE this. It’s been...personal manifesto,
  2. psql said: dude, you are married though right?! my brain is being confused!
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